Sex counseling in Amsterdam

Questions, problems or uncertainties related to ​​sexuality are common. Talking about sex or sexuality can be difficult, especially if sex is not going as you had pictured it. Despite all available information, people do not always find the right answers. So then it can be wise to seek the professional help of a psychologist or sexologist (psychologist providing sex counseling / sex therapy).


Eveline Stallaart Sexual Health (ESSH) provides expert help and advice to men, women, and couples of all ages with questions or problems related to ​​sex, sexuality, (sexual) intimacy and/or relationships. ESSH is centrally located in Amsterdam near the Vondelpark, just a few steps from the P.C. Hooftstraat and the Museum square.


You can easily register by sending an email to


Why choose ESSH Amsterdam:

  • Expert advice and counseling (in English or Dutch)
  • Instant appointment, no waiting lists
  • Appointments via Skype or phone possible, if desired
  • No referral by doctor (huisarts) required


About the therapist

My name is Eveline Stallaart, I am a psychologist and sexologist (sex counselor / therapist). In 2008 I graduated from the University of Maastricht. After this I have gained experience in various workplaces as a practitioner. For example in the Jellinek addiction treatment clinic in Amsterdam and at the Sexology Department at Lucas Andreas Hospital (now called: OLVG West Hospital) in Amsterdam.


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Since 2013 I have my own sexology practice in Amsterdam, called ESSH – Eveline Stallaart Sexual Health, which is located in Amsterdam city center. I am working as a psychologist and sexologist / therapist providing sex counseling. Besides that, I regularly publish articles in the largest Dutch newspaper ‘De Telegraaf’, women’s magazine ‘VROUW, on TV and other media (Elle, Marie-Claire and others) as an expert in the field of sexology. In addition, I am Brand Ambassador for EasyToys and I have my own blog called Oh Mama and feature as an expert in various big TV programs such as ‘Married At First Sight’ and ‘RTL Boulevard’. As a sexuologist I constantly follow courses, do retraining and I visit conferences to stay up-to-date of developments in the field of sexology.


Examples of sex therapy issues we can help with:

  • Little or no sex drive
  • Experiencing pain during sex
  • Problems with sexual arousal
  • Uncertainties in the area of ​​sexuality
  • Sexual aversion
  • Erection Problems
  • Difference in sexual desire between partners
  • Sexual tensions that lead to relationship conflicts
  • Premature ejaculation
  • Difficult or unable to orgasm
  • Excessive sexual desire / sex addiction
  • Questions about normality
  • Questions / problems regarding sexual orientation (gay / bisexual / heterosexual)
  • Problems with sexual preferences or fetishism
  • Disease and its effects on sexuality
  • Problems after sexual abuse
  • And other topics

If your question or problem is not in this list, please contact us to determine together if and how we can help you.


Appointment and costs

ESSH has no waiting lists and referral by a doctor is not needed. So you can easily make a counseling appointment by sending an email to


Consultation hours

Regular consultation hours are weekdays from 08:30-18:00h. Each session takes 45 minutes. The first appointment will normally be with you, in next sessions it is possible to also bring your partner (if relevant).



  • Individual therapy: € 185,- per session (45 minutes)
  • Evening tariff: € 235,- per session (on request only)


COVID prevention measures

Face-to-face appointments are possible as usual, with a few additional safety measures:

  • If you have COVID (or similar symptoms): stay at home, we can do the consultation via FaceTime / Skype or telephone (or reschedule the appointment)
  • Do not come to the practice earlier than 5 minutes before the time of the appointment
  • Always keep some distance from the therapist and from other people in the building


Appointment via phone or Skype

Besides appointments face-to-face, appointments via phone, Skype/Facetime/Zoom are also possible, if desired. For such appointments, payment will have to be made in advance (at least 24 hours before the start of the session).


Cancellation fee

Cancellations or changes more than 24 hours in advance are free of charge. In case of non-appearance or late cancellation (less than 24 hours in advance), the full amount will be charged.



Payment will occur right after each session. This can be done in cash, via debit card (PIN), or credit card (VISA, Mastercard, American Express). A receipt will be provided to you upon payment. For Skype or phone consultations, payment will have to be made at least 24 hours in advance.


Healthcare insurance

Restitution/reimbursement for first-line psychological/sexual counseling by the Dutch ‘basisverzekering’ (basic healthcare insurance) has been changed since January 2014. As a result, the ‘basisverzekering’ no longer covers sex therapy / sex counseling.


If you have any questions, please contact us via The rest of the website is in Dutch, but you can use to translate our other pages into English.


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